In Greece, people are leaving Athens and returning to rural areas. See here. I’ve never heard of this happening before on a large scale, but it makes sense. With food prices high, why not try to survive by growing food, or at least looking for opportunities in rural areas?
As someone who grew up in a city and ended up in a rural area, I can talk about what it’s like to make such a move. These days it is much easier to live in a rural area now that we have the Internet and email available to keep us connected. What initially seemed like a problem, the lack of good shopping, is less of a problem because even when I do get to the good stores I want to patronize, they don’t seem to have what I want. It’s much more convenient just to order on the Internet. The major problem of rural areas, then, is simply the lack of good restaurants, for which I have no solution other than an occasional trip to a big city.
Now there are some odd attitudes I’ve noticed in rural areas that are distinctly different from urban attitudes. When someone in a city is tailgating me, I assume they want to pass me, and if I can find a place to pull over so they can do this, they zoom by quickly. This doesn’t happen in rural areas. People who tailgate me on a country road have no interest in passing me. I will slow down when I get to a passing zone, and instead of passing me, the other fellow will slow down, too. I will slow down further, often making frantic gestures for them to pass, but they just slow down with me. I’ve even come to a complete stop in a 55mph zone and have waved them around me. Usually, they will then pass, though often giving me a look as though I was being extremely rude. (One woman refused to pass even when I stopped, and the advice given to my by a native of New York City, that in that situation I should back up, is a little too aggressive for me.) I’ve asked people who have grown up in rural areas what this is all about, but I haven’t received any sort of coherent answer.
This isn’t to say that urban drivers don’t have their flaws. One can see these people on rural sections of an interstate staying in the left lane instead of hewing to the right.
Rural people also have what I consider odd ideas about dogs and cats. People from cities regard dogs and cats as family members, but rural people seem to regard them as automatons that don’t need any special attention. The result is a large number of strays, or else dogs that are psychologically neglected. We had some neighbors who always fed their dog, but who never once petted it (or played with it or gave it any special attention). We tried to pet it, but it was too afraid of us. When some of their relatives came over once, a young boy in the party was petting the dog, and it was pretty clear that the dog absolutely loved the attention because it kept coming back for more.
I’m not a dog person, but I really don’t understand the point of getting a dog and never petting it.
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05/21/2011
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Rural, John, is a mindset. You've got to unlearn everything you were taught as a city boy. It's as simple as that. The best way to learn rural, is to work hard and dirty for a living. Manliness, or rather, the want and ability to survive, are still valued traits--although public education is trying hard to eliminate them.
As far as the driving: don't worry about it. Just keep an eye out for deer (or bear or moose or cattle).
And for pets: A bit too much of a generalization for me. I know lots of folks with beloved dogs, which are never allowed in the house, and others, like ours, who are allowed to sleep on any piece of furniture found comfortable. And I know lots of folks in the city who are afraid of their own animals, treat them like trophies, or keep them caged in a kennel.
Posted by: J. Reed Anderson | 05/23/2011 at 01:23 PM
Thanks for your input. I've already hit a deer, which has made me appreciate hunters. I don't think there are any moose or bears around here, but I'll keep cattle in mind.
I'm not too worried about the rural tailgaters; I'm just curious about what they are doing.
It seems like I've jumped to a conclusion about pets. I bow to your superior experience.
I learn a lot from the people who comment here.
Posted by: John Pepple | 05/23/2011 at 07:18 PM
On the driving---I'm pretty annoyed by the tailgating habits of most drivers too. Thing is, in the city, the only tailgaters you notice are the ones who want to go way, way faster than you are. Everyone else is more or less just keeping up the traffic. When the road is really open you see something profoundly disturbing:
Most people have no freaking clue how fast they want to travel. They take their cues instead from the traffic around them. When they glom onto you, they kind of anchor their speed to yours, deciding whether to be in front of you or behind you. The most annoying sorts will pass you and then SLOW down. You don't see this behavior in cities because you so rarely have the open roads that make it visible. Why do they do this? Is it a herding instinct? I've no idea, but this is the observed behavior.
Posted by: Jehu | 05/23/2011 at 10:25 PM
"they kind of anchor their speed to yours"
Yes, that's the explanation I was given. It's awfully strange.
Posted by: John Pepple | 05/24/2011 at 03:57 AM
Think of it like this---they rarely look at their speedometer---unless they perceive there's maybe a cop around---this is why speed traps are such lucrative 'revenue enhancers'. Instead they just sort of go by feel for how fast they're going. When they see you, you become their new reference point for 'appropriate speed', and they then apply a tiny delta based on their personality to your speed. When you leave their field of conscious vision, their speed starts to drift again. Back when I was a teenager, driving instructors called it 'highway hypnosis', especially when you left a highway and briefly stayed in that mode of operation.
Posted by: Jehu | 05/24/2011 at 02:51 PM
I moved from an urban to a rural area too. And the ass-riders (as I call them) are driving me nuts. Let's just say I learned to drive in Miami, and one thing that was drilled into me is you never, never ride up any other car's bumper like they seem to do in all of the rest of the southeast US outside of Florida. Florida has other bad driver problems, but people riding up so close to the back of your car that you start thinking "I'm not ready for a relationship" isn't one of them. It's one of the few things I miss about Florida -- that, and all the Cuban coffee places in Miami.
Posted by: Andrea Harris | 05/24/2011 at 07:43 PM
Jehu: They rarely look at their speedometer? How strange.
Another problem is the people who want to go 50mph. If you're in a 45mph zone, they are ass-riding, as you call it, Andrea. Then you get to a 55mph zone, and they fall back. Sheesh.
Posted by: John Pepple | 05/25/2011 at 06:00 PM
I've never lived in a rural area; more like suburban but I know many people who don't play with their pets often and never let them enter the house for making it messy. I dont think its a rural thing.
Posted by: Car Dealers Houston | 03/27/2012 at 07:12 PM
Yeah, I probably overgeneralized about pets.
Posted by: John Pepple | 03/28/2012 at 06:12 AM